I've worked with hundreds of managers over the course of my HR career, and I've noticed a pattern that holds true across every industry, every company size, and every type of employee problem: managers almost always wait longer than they should to terminate someone.
Sometimes weeks. Sometimes months. In the worst cases, years.
And here's the uncomfortable truth: the delay almost always makes the situation worse — legally, operationally, and for the team that has to keep working alongside the problem employee.
Why Managers Hesitate
It's rarely because they don't know the termination needs to happen. Most managers I work with know. The hesitation comes from a handful of predictable fears:
- Fear of doing it wrong. "What if I say something that gets us sued?" This is a legitimate concern — but waiting doesn't reduce legal risk. It usually increases it.
- Fear of the emotional reaction. Nobody wants to see someone cry, get angry, or beg for their job. That discomfort is real, and it's human. But it's not a business reason to delay.
- Uncertainty about the documentation. "Do I have enough to justify this?" This is the one I help managers answer every day.
- Hope that it will resolve itself. It almost never does. An underperforming or problematic employee rarely self-corrects without a structured intervention — and if they haven't responded to coaching, they're not going to.
What Delay Actually Costs You
"Every week you don't act is a week your best employees watch you tolerate something you shouldn't."
The costs of delay are real and measurable. Your high-performing employees are watching. They see what you allow, and they draw conclusions about your leadership and the organization's standards. The longer a problem employee stays, the more your credibility erodes with the people you most need to retain.
There's also the direct productivity cost — the work that isn't getting done, the errors that keep happening, the team members who are quietly picking up the slack and quietly resenting it.
And yes, there's the legal dimension. Counterintuitively, continued employment can sometimes strengthen a future claim. If someone's performance was bad enough to terminate in March but you kept them until October, a plaintiff's attorney will ask what changed — and why you kept paying them if the situation was as serious as you now claim.
The Documentation Question
The most common thing I hear is: "I don't think I have enough documentation." Sometimes that's true — and the right answer is to build the record deliberately before moving forward. But more often, managers have more documentation than they realize, or they're holding themselves to a standard of proof that isn't legally required.
Employment in Texas is at-will. You don't need to prove a case beyond reasonable doubt. You need a legitimate, non-discriminatory reason and a reasonable paper trail. That's a lower bar than most managers think.
What I do in my documentation review process is look at what exists, identify any gaps or risk factors, and give an honest assessment of where things stand. Sometimes I tell a client they're ready to move. Sometimes I recommend they take a few specific steps first. Either way, they leave with clarity instead of anxiety.
When to Get Help
If any of these sound familiar, it's time to talk to someone before you act — or before you wait any longer:
- The employee is on FMLA, has an active accommodation, or has recently filed a complaint
- You've had performance conversations but nothing was documented
- The employee belongs to a protected class and you're concerned about perception
- You've already delayed for months and aren't sure how that affects your position
- You simply don't want to be in the room when it happens
All of those situations are manageable. None of them mean you're stuck. They just mean you need a plan — and someone who has done this before.
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